"I sometimes wish that people would put a little more emphasis upon the observance of the law than they do upon its enforcement." ~Calvin Coolidge

Monday, June 23, 2008

Divorce drama

Well tomorrow I will be in court again with the future ex! I had a meeting with my attorney so that we would have all our ducks in a row because this meeting is hopefully going to modify what I am paying her. Let me recap what this gold digging bitch is getting from me. I pay her 3k a month which includes her car payment and insurance. Remember I have no children with this woman nor property. The only reason she gets this amount of money is because she says that since she has “fibromyalgia” she can’t earn sufficient money to sustain her life style. Wow, it’s just that easy to earn basically starting pay for a police rookie just by saying she has a disability. Her lies are not only costing me dearly, they are making a mockery of women who are truly afflicted with fibro.

Now, this is fixing to get better because I know all of you are sitting there with your mouth wide open in disbelief. During our meeting, my attorney walks in with a new piece of information for me. Ms. Ed’s new attorney has filed a motion for contempt on me! Yes, you read that right! The basis for this? She told him that I was 1190.00 dollars in arrears in temporary needs. Ummmmm, first, you were sitting there when the magistrate gave the order of what I was suppose to pay. Second, I paid every penny of that and you know it. Finally and most important, it comes directly out of my check! How in the hell could I possibly be behind!? Then the document goes on to read and request that due to her “Fragile” health she needs dental work done in the amount of 1290.00 dollars. The sucker husband (that’s me) has the money to pay this and should pay it. Wow, that’s big, bold, brassy balls! It said “Fragile” 10 times at least. Needless to say, I just sat there stunned. What absolutely floored me was the statement “The wife prays that the court make the husband pay the back alimony as well as for the dental work that must be done. The wife also prays that the court would find that do to her “Fragile” health award her additional monies to sustain her lifestyle because the current amount is not enough. Finally, the wife prays that the court find the husband in full contempt and incarcerate him if the money is not paid”. Unbelievable! Hahaha, yeah, I see me payin’ her a load of cash from behind bars!

Let me tell why she has no money. She lives in a $650,000 dollar house with a room mate. I know that the house payment is at least $2,000.00 dollars a month. She is living in a huge high dollar community that she has no business living in and that’s why she can’t afford to live. Me, well I live in a trailer on city property, I can not afford to pay anything. You wanna no why? When I get my check once all of the money comes out that goes to her I have roughly $200.00 dollars (that’s two hundred) a payday (that’s bi-weekly) to live on! That’s right you, read that right too. To top it off, I retire in less than a week. I won’t have that kind of money coming in. I will not have the ability to go out there and work an extra job to earn extra money. I have to pay $800.00 dollars a month just in health insurance. I just can not believe that anyone could be this greedy and nasty. Well I take that back, I guess I can believe it after all of this.

I am so tired of it but here’s the thing, I may live in the ghetto (and I do) but I am the happiest I have ever been. So to her I say, “Go live in your high dollar house that I'm paying for, drive your high dollar car that I'm also paying for because deep down you will always be white trash and even deeper down, you know it. You’re a sad human being and Karma is a bitch baby!”

Here’s praying the judge sees who and what she really is!

I’m Out And We’ll Talk Later!

16 comments:

Evil Lunch Lady said...

Holy shit! $3000! WTF! Tell the judge to make that stupid bitch live within her means, not yours, hers. Wow........just wow.

Sorry, That just pisses me off. Hope all works out for ya!

Aza said...

You know my thought process on all of this. You wouldn’t have retired if not for her. You were emotionally and psychologically strong armed into making that decision after your mom got sick. After all of this is nearly over I’d counter sue her stupid ass for alimony. I’d pray to the court that they see that you’d have never retired had it not been for all of her threats and I’d pray that the court sees how much money your losing due to your forced retirement. Then I’d pray the court find her in contempt and incarcerate her when she doesn’t pay! What’s good for the goose, right?

TheBronze said...

Un-fricking-believable! Aren't there any sane judges in FL?

So she developed Fibro since she married you? Why are you responsible? Fibro is fake, BTW.

Why are you responsible to pay for her dental work? Just the fact that you're married to her?

Stories like this are what makes me never want to get married!

Berserk said...

I'm stunned.... and disgusted.

I hope the court lets you cut her off. That's ridiculous.

Angie said...

This is just ridiculous!! I can not believe the injustice. I hope to God that the judge sees how ridiculous this is.

TheBronze said...

Sorry Angie...

anyamartinez said...

Yeah, well I PRAY that women like her will drop dead and stop making he rest of us look bad

Aza said...

I couldn't agree with Anya more! Me and that chick need to go play golf...she seems like a fellow plotter against stupid people!

ro said...

What an awful situation. Your ex is definitely taking advantage of you. You should take a look at this excellent FAQ page on a legal site that talks about spousal support and other divorce related issues. Hope this helps. http://www.freemychild.com/fl_faq.html#spo

anyamartinez said...

I've never golfed a day in my life for all i've seen Caddyshack and Happy Gilmore a bazillion times. I'm just a grouchy 30 year old with 4 cats.

For The People said...

Damn!! I just thought I had a bad day Friday. I could say something sappy but damn! Did I mention, Damn! That sucks!

*Goddess* said...

Your ex has been married what? Five times? On the bright side for YOU, she doesn't have five dead ex'es in her wake....

TheBronze said...

Well, how'd it go?

COPPER said...

Now I know where Georgia Divorce Lawyers go when business slows down here. I hope all goes well for you, sounds like you definetly need some Good Mojo thrown your way!

Anonymous said...

Too bad you're not in NC, alimony of any sort is not given here. Karma is a bitch, my dear. My ex-husband had a major stroke in January-at 33 yrs old. He's now 50% paralyzed and in a wheelchair. 8 years after our divorce,I'm still in therapy. Seems like an even trade. She'll get hers.

KVegas911

Lisa J said...

If YOU HAVE TO PAY THAT....You need a different attorney!!!! There is no way you will be able to do that, file chapter 7 or something. There is no way a good attorney should allow that to happen. Move to Mexico and let her find you!!! I just can not believe this. Good luck guy!
Take care, and stay sound of mind.